AED Self-Assessment | Adult Emotional Dependency Assessment
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Do You Have Adult Emotional Dependency?

Take this 5-minute clinical assessment to discover what's really causing your anxiety and relationship struggles

What is AED?

Adult Emotional Dependency (AED) occurs when the natural transition from childhood emotional dependency to adult self-reliance doesn't fully complete. It's the hidden root cause behind:

  • Feeling unsafe or experiencing chronic anxiety without external support
  • Seeking love as a need rather than a choice (neediness)
  • Looking to others for validation and leadership
  • Chronic anxiety, relationship struggles, and persistent self-doubt

31

Symptoms Assessed

5 min

To Complete

  • Instant personalized results
  • Based on 30+ years of clinical research
  • 100% free and confidential

By Luca Bosurgi, DHyp, MBSCH • Mind Fitness Inc.

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Your AED Assessment Results

Based on your responses to 31 clinical indicators

0

out of 31 indicators

📍 What Happens Next

  • Review Your Results Your score reveals how AED may be affecting your anxiety, relationships, and daily life. Take time to understand which patterns resonate most.
  • Book a Free Consultation (Recommended) In a 40-minute call, we'll discuss your specific results, clarify what's driving your struggles, and create a personalized path forward.
  • Start Your Transformation Choose private sessions for personalized guidance, or begin the Captain You® Course to work at your own pace.

Ready to Break Free from AED?

As a licensed clinical hypnotherapist (DHyp, MBSCH) and creator of the CognitiveOS Hypnosis® method, I've helped hundreds of clients worldwide develop emotional self-reliance and break free from AED patterns.

Available in-person (Spring Hill, FL) or worldwide via Zoom

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Free Clinical Assessment

Do You Have Adult Emotional Dependency?
Take this 5-minute clinical assessment to discover what’s really causing your anxiety and relationship struggles

What is AED?
Adult Emotional Dependency (AED) occurs when the natural transition from childhood emotional dependency to adult self-reliance doesn’t fully complete. It’s the hidden root cause behind:

Feeling unsafe or experiencing chronic anxiety without external support
Seeking love as a need rather than a choice (neediness)
Looking to others for validation and leadership
Chronic anxiety, relationship struggles, and persistent self-doubt

31
Symptoms Assessed

5 min
To Complete

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Based on 30+ years of clinical research
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By Luca Bosurgi, DHyp, MBSCH • Mind Fitness Inc.

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Your AED Assessment Results
Based on your responses to 31 clinical indicators

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📍 What Happens Next

Review Your Results
Your score reveals how AED may be affecting your anxiety, relationships, and daily life. Take time to understand which patterns resonate most.

Book a Free Consultation (Recommended)
In a 40-minute call, we’ll discuss your specific results, clarify what’s driving your struggles, and create a personalized path forward.

Start Your Transformation
Choose private sessions for personalized guidance, or begin the Captain You® Course to work at your own pace.

Ready to Break Free from AED?
As a licensed clinical hypnotherapist (DHyp, MBSCH) and creator of the CognitiveOS Hypnosis® method, I’ve helped hundreds of clients worldwide develop emotional self-reliance and break free from AED patterns.
Book Your Free Consultation with Luca →
Available in-person (Spring Hill, FL) or worldwide via Zoom

Prefer a Self-Guided Approach?
The Captain You® Course is a 50-day program designed specifically to develop emotional self-reliance through the Bosurgi Mind Fitness Method.
Try the Course FREE for 3 Days →
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{cat:”Core Fears & Security”, q:”Chronic insecurity”},
{cat:”Core Fears & Security”, q:”Generalized anxiety or feeling unsafe without clear reason”},
{cat:”Core Fears & Security”, q:”Fears (general or specific)”},
{cat:”Core Fears & Security”, q:”Panic attacks”},
{cat:”Self-Perception & Identity”, q:”Self doubt”},
{cat:”Self-Perception & Identity”, q:”Feelings of being inadequate”},
{cat:”Self-Perception & Identity”, q:”Lack of identity or unclear sense of self”},
{cat:”Self-Perception & Identity”, q:”Feeling like a fraud or imposter”},
{cat:”Self-Perception & Identity”, q:”Feeling like a child in a world of adults”},
{cat:”Validation & Relationships”, q:”Search for leadership and validation from others”},
{cat:”Validation & Relationships”, q:”People pleaser tendencies”},
{cat:”Validation & Relationships”, q:”Dependency in relationships”},
{cat:”Validation & Relationships”, q:”Neediness (seeking love as a need rather than a choice)”},
{cat:”Validation & Relationships”, q:”Resentment for lack of leadership and support from others”},
{cat:”Social & Belonging”, q:”Feeling like an outsider”},
{cat:”Social & Belonging”, q:”Social anxiety”},
{cat:”Social & Belonging”, q:”Loneliness”},
{cat:”Social & Belonging”, q:”Antisocial tendencies”},
{cat:”Emotional Regulation”, q:”Emotional numbness or difficulty feeling emotions”},
{cat:”Emotional Regulation”, q:”Chronic anger”},
{cat:”Emotional Regulation”, q:”Anxiety (general or persistent)”},
{cat:”Emotional Regulation”, q:”Depression”},
{cat:”Emotional Regulation”, q:”Feeling overwhelmed”},
{cat:”Behavioral Patterns”, q:”Selfishness (difficulty balancing own needs with others)”},
{cat:”Behavioral Patterns”, q:”Procrastination”},
{cat:”Behavioral Patterns”, q:”Addictions (substances, behaviors, or patterns)”},
{cat:”Life Satisfaction”, q:”Unfulfilled artistic and professional success”},
{cat:”Life Satisfaction”, q:”Unsuccessful personal life and relationships”}
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