Picture a world where you can freely embrace all those around you, as they are all there by choice rather than necessity.

Envision utilizing your total mental capacity to create, conquer, excel, and love without seeking approval and affection from others. Consider the liberation of feeling equal to everyone, selecting rather than being chosen, and unconditionally loving instead of constantly striving for validation.

Imagine the strength that comes from being naturally beautiful, talented, and prosperous instead of relying on these qualities for emotional satisfaction. Picture a life filled with fearless love and pure enjoyment.

Contemplate an existence free from the pain, fears, and addictions stemming from emotional dependence.

This is what Mind Fitness and emotional independence make possible.

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🔍 My Journey to Understanding Emotional Dependency

In my lifetime, I have been drawn to exploring the intricacies of the mind. My studies have led me to delve into the complex topic of emotional dependency.

From a young age, I recognized that relying on others for emotional well-being was not a sustainable way to live as an adult. This discovery motivated me to find an alternative approach.

Through my determination and passion, I found a path toward breaking free from toxic emotional dependency and creating healthy, interdependent relationships. This journey has become my ultimate purpose in life.

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🧠 Understanding the Purpose of Emotional Dependency

To address emotional dependency, I needed to understand its cause. Therefore, I worked to gain knowledge about the purpose of our mind, body, and lives.

I realized that everything in the mind and body is equipment that operates to maximize our efficiency. Our skin, bones, thinking, and emotions all strive to achieve our life’s goals of promoting safe and efficient behaviors.

Through studying the early development of mammals and traditional rituals marking adulthood, its purpose became clear to me:

“From birth, we are wired to rely on our parents and educators
for love, safety, validation, and guidance.
This attachment safeguards us during our vulnerable childhood years.”

As we go through puberty, we are meant to shift towards emotional and physical independence, with these abilities further honed during adolescence.

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⚠️ Why So Many Adults Struggle With Emotional Dependency

Self-leadership and self-reliance are vital skills that we usually learn from our parents. However, in modern times, many parents lack the necessary role models to teach their children how to achieve emotional independence during their formative years.

As a result, when it is time for us to leave the nest, we often do so without the tools for emotional self-reliance. This leaves us with no option but to seek emotional support from others around us.

This is why many of us struggle with Adult Emotional Dependency (AED) well into adulthood. The effects can manifest in various ways:

→ Low self-esteem and self-criticism
→ Difficulties in relationships
→ Inability to establish healthy connections
→ Feelings of depression or fear of rejection
→ Struggles with addiction or financial instability

Ultimately, these behaviors stem from a deep need for acceptance and approval from others.

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💡 The Solution: The Mind Fitness Method

Upon discovering the root cause of this condition, I directed all my efforts and resources toward finding a solution.

The task at hand was to pinpoint a technique that provides to the mind the self-sufficient models typically meant to be instilled by our caregivers.

After conducting extensive research and clinical trials with over 6,000 individuals throughout three decades, I developed a protocol that combines life coaching with deep guided meditation that leads the mind towards independence and eliminates outdated coping mechanisms formed through emotional dependency.

My Mind Fitness method is built on the belief that our mind constantly strives for perfection by selecting and implementing the best responses to daily events. The mind aims to optimize safety and efficiency, regardless of the situation.

However, our available tools and perception of the event may influence our behavioral choices. Consider how our behaviors would vary if we were trying to be beautiful, intelligent, rich, cool, or confident to gain love and approval versus just being ourselves without fear of judgment or rejection.

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🔄 How the Mind Fitness Method Works

When self-reliant models are already in place, they tend to be more efficient and safer, making them the top priority for the mind.

The Mind Fitness method assists the mind in identifying these powerful self-reliant models — the ones we ideally would have received from our parents. This newfound clarity allows the mind to let go of outdated behaviors.

The process involves:

✓ Seeking obsolete behavioral responses, actions, thoughts, or feelings
✓ Identifying experiences that trigger old emotionally dependent models
✓ Making necessary updates to align with the new self-reliant model
✓ Establishing self-reliance as the primary operating system

This subliminal process doesn’t require conscious effort or recollection of events to enact change and achieve liberation. The mind operates similarly to a computer — it can quickly search through countless events and upgrade in seconds.

This is similar to the process of self-adopting your body and mind.

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🧘 The Power of Theta State

Although it may appear complex, the Mind Fitness method basically accelerates our natural learning and improvement process.

Through deep guided meditations, this method utilizes the Theta state — also used by Buddhist Monks for spiritual and mental development — to enhance our learning environment.

In this emotional state, the mind is less distracted and more receptive to alternative perspectives and guidance for self-reliance.

“This approach is uncomplicated and effective,
eliminating the need for years of therapy, medication, or numerous seminars.
It unleashes your inherent abilities.”

This allows you to experience emotional self-reliance easily.

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🌟 Begin Your Journey

I look forward to sharing my insights with you so that you can learn more about my program, the functioning of the mind, and how you can embrace a happy and efficient life.

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📚 Continue Your Journey

→ Adult Emotional Dependency (AED) — Understanding the condition
→ The Power of Emotional Self-Reliance — The solution
→ How to Self-Adopt Your Body and Mind — Practical steps

🔗 Helpful Resources

🧠 Adult Emotional Dependency (AED)
💪 Emotional Self-Reliance
⚡ Brainpower & Mental Performance
😰 The Nature of Anxiety
🩹 Trauma & PTSD
🧘 Guided Meditations
🎯 Captain You® 50-Day Program
👤 Working With Luca

With love,

Luca Bosurgi
DHyp, MBSCH · Mind Fitness & CognitiveOS Hypnosis®